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My dear daddy- 1

                                  I always wonder how people write a lot in blogs, Facebook and Twitter. Whenever I try to write/type something I get stuck within a few words of it. I believe, writing is for people filled with a lot of emotions and clear thoughts about life. I am a person with little emotions about anything in life and with an ever confused mind. I have never been too much happy or sad over anything. Maybe that's the reason I couldn't write though I badly wanted to. They say, the extreme qualities of a person will be put to an end at some point of time. Namely jealousy, vendetta, laziness, etc. My quality which I have always wanted to overcome - my lack of emotions, came to an end last year when my father passed away suddenly, unexpectedly. I had a burst of emotions which I have never felt in my life at any earlier stage.Though I had too much of emotions, I never shared it with anyone. I have never got the guts to express myself to people, especially my sorro
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Depression - personal take

Just when you think things can't get worse this year, here comes a news of the suicide of a young actor. Sushant Singh Rajput. Any death news is disturbing to me, particularly this one being a suicide due to depression. This is especially a challenging time the entire world is facing and we are all at the risk of losing our minds. I have had quite a few experiences with this that showed some dark places of this world. I am writing this to share my experience and give hope to anyone going through similar things that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Always. There is always Hope.   As a child, me like everyone else never knew the real meaning to the word 'depression'. We all thought depression is just being sad when you failed an exam or dint get the cycle you always wished for. I had a wonderful childhood, never had any complaints. I was not very a expressive kid especially in the area of pain/sadness. I would just let go whenever I got physically hurt or got low mark
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Feminism - The new trend

I really wanted to write in this topic for a long time because while writing something, no one objects you or talks inbetween. :p You are at ease to finish expressing everything and then give it to people. Thats much better than two people talking at the same time just like the debates in news channels these days!! This is not a post about delhi rape or how men should learn how to treat women. There are hundreds of articles about it. I have talked all my life about it and there is nothing new to be told. So please read those articles to get a clear idea. Here it starts : One of the hot topics these days is Feminism!! Or to put it lightly, Women empowerment. Why I call it hot is because, if you are a feminist, then you are the trendy bold girl of this generation!! (or we say "bharathi kanda pudhumai penn").  It has become a trend with women to project themselves as feminists  just like men calling themselves Thala fan( If he is a good person, give him a nobel prize
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A hopeful try.

I have always thought writing a blog is suitable only for people with great thoughts and knowledge. So i stopped myself from giving an attempt though i created a blog for myself. We generally develop our confidence based on other people's views and beliefs on us. And that is the main reason why we don't do many things we wish to do fearing failure. Failure and criticism stopped me from doing many such things in life. But now i have understood that writing a blog helps us to express our thoughts and imaginations no matter how dull it may sound without caring about the response. Though I appear to be a strong and confident person I always had the fear of expressing my true self (the emotional part of me) to anyone. People call it ego or ignorance. But i have no names for it other than calling it the fear of being misunderstood. Publicizing my thoughts have always given me shivers. But the entry into college life and all these experience which i faced these three years made me u
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